Most people’s near-death experiences don’t fit the popular narrative of an extraordinary, spiritual journey. In reality, each person’s experience is unique and tailored to their individual life story. When we listen without imposing our own templates or assumptions, we can gain a deeper understanding of these events.
Two recent interviews with individuals who had near-death experiences illustrate this point. The first interviewee, a house painter, shared that his insight from the experience was “the essence of all is encounter and connection.” He didn’t feel compelled to share his story widely because he didn’t want to impose his own views on others. The second interviewee, an elderly woman who had a NDE four decades ago, revealed her ongoing homesickness for heaven, which has been difficult to overcome.
These stories highlight the importance of genuine listening without expecting a specific outcome or template. The individually tailored hypothesis suggests that each experience is shaped by the unique individual’s consciousness and circumstances. When we listen without assumptions, we can appreciate the complexities and subtleties of near-death experiences, rather than trying to fit them into preconceived narratives.
Unfortunately, commercial accounts often create pressure for answers that individuals may not have, leading to a narrow archetype and a lack of personal truth. By listening without templates, we can provide a more supportive and non-judgmental space for those who have had near-death experiences to share their stories.
Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/consciousness-and-meaning-at-lifes-end/202512/when-near-death-experiences-do-not-fit-the