Radicalized men are increasingly drawing their partners into extreme ideologies, leaving women feeling isolated and vulnerable.
Samantha, a Sheffield-based woman in her 30s, thought she had found a progressive partner in her Swedish boyfriend. However, upon breaking up, she discovered he was part of a men’s mental health group influenced by Canadian psychologist Jordan Peterson and far-right Swedish influencer. Samantha’s experience is not unique, with several women reporting their partners have been sucked into the manosphere or consumed far-right material online.
Research from anti-fascism organization Hope Not Hate found that 41% of young men support Andrew Tate, compared to just 12% of young women. Nigel Bromage, director of Exit Hate Trust, warns that wives are worried about their husbands becoming radicalized, especially those with young children.
Rachel, a London-based woman in her 30s, met her partner on the dating app Hinge and was struck by his generosity. However, as their relationship progressed, she realized he had homophobic views and became increasingly controlling. His behavior escalated to rape and assault, which he was convicted of after they broke up.
Dr Lisa Sugiura, an expert in online misogyny, says that while there is concern about men being radicalized, the risk these individuals pose to their female partners is often overlooked. Commonly held views in the manosphere include being anti-feminist and believing society is systemically sexist against men.
Debbie, a woman in her 50s, shares similar experiences with her ex-husband, who consumed misogynistic content online and was violent towards her. Roisin from Belfast also reports her partner has shown manosphere videos to their daughter and made derogatory remarks about other cultures.
These women’s stories highlight the need for society to prioritize the impact of extreme ideologies on female partners. Dr Sugiura emphasizes the importance of ensuring these women’s voices and experiences are not forgotten.
Source: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/apr/19/there-were-no-warning-signs-what-happens-when-your-partner-falls-into-the-manosphere